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Stand up for yourself, dear, because no one else will !

 Yes Darlings, you read it right !

You have to stand up for yourself, because no one will. Not your family, not your friends, not even those who promised to have your back always. You are the only one who has your back. No matter what happens in your life or whatever situations you face, learn to support yourself by not depending on anyone else for anything. 

In our lives, we come across many situations where we are alone, with no one to turn to. Well, that is the time we have to be strong. Others will not support you , even if you are right. Here, we can take the example of women standing up for themselves. Many women, including young girls, have been abused and molested, but how many of them received support from their own kith and kin? Those victims were shamed even more and disowned. Very few had their loved ones standing up with them, for them. And why is that others are not even bothered about those women? Because they fear the society, as most of the people blame women for any misfortune that happens to them. We see more and more restrictions imposed on women - on their clothes. on their eating habits, on their work timings, etc. As girls, whenever we are molested, our own mothers ask us to shut up or don't believe us or even worse, accuse us for getting molested. We feel damn low and unworthy, full of negative thoughts. And that is exactly when we need to be strong, darlings. We need to find our own happiness, collect our broken pieces, mend ourselves, come back stronger - like a Phoenix, and stand up for ourselves. 

It is not them who will provide us with strength or support; we have to do it on our own. 

Not only women, but men also face lots of false accusations. The society which imposes restrictions on women, whenever any injustice happens to her, the same society boycotts and abuses men, when they are falsely accused by women. Hypocrites, right? Well, that's the reality, sweethearts. And we have to live here. 

So, in the end, learn not only to stand up for yourself and be independent, but also stand up for others and make a change in  their lives. 


Love, 

M 



Comments

  1. Abhishek2 May 2021 at 06:05

    Loved your blog ....yaa I wanna say that you are the best and want more of this kind from you .....will be waiting ....say something about boys too u told about girls more rather than boys ..so pls speak about boys too
    Rest loved it ❣️

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  2. Likhitha Prasuna R4 June 2021 at 09:00

    All the best ra!

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