Love Thyself Always

 Yes Darlings, you read it right ! You have to stand up for yourself, because no one will. Not your family, not your friends, not even those who promised to have your back always. You are the only one who has your back. No matter what happens in your life or whatever situations you face, learn to support yourself by not depending on anyone else for anything.  In our lives, we come across many situations where we are alone, with no one to turn to. Well, that is the time we have to be strong. Others will not support you , even if you are right. Here, we can take the example of women standing up for themselves. Many women, including young girls, have been abused and molested, but how many of them received support from their own kith and kin? Those victims were shamed even more and disowned. Very few had their loved ones standing up with them, for them. And why is that others are not even bothered about those women? Because they fear the society, as most of the people blame women ...

Will you be the one to hold my hand in the crowd to make me feel safe and the same one to hold my hand at nights during nightmares? Will you be the one to stand up for me when I am right, in front of everyone and to scold me, if I am wrong, when we are alone? Will you be the one to tolerate all my mood swings  and still pamper me like a baby? Will you be the one to encourage my career plans and dreams and support me but not dominate me and show male patriarchy? Will you be the one who is okay with me going for a job  and at the same time help me in taking care of the house? Will you be the one who is always faithful  and whom I can trust blindly? Will you be the reason I look forward to wake up every morning and the reason for my smile when I am sleeping?  Will you accept my family just as you would want me to accept yours and name it our family instead of yours and mine? Will you be the one to feed me  instead of being the one to starve  me? Will you be th...

Often, in our life, we tend to feel lonely, bored and unworthy. It happens with almost all of us and that's when we feel the need for someone else in life. And then? We depend on them for everything, to keep us happy, to keep talking to us, to keep us entertained. Sweetie, we fail to understand that they have a life of their own, they have their own battles and lastly, why do we need someone else to keep us happy?  Are we not enough for ourselves to be happy ? Unless we are not happy with ourselves, we will not be happy with someone else, because we will keep finding faults with them.  Sweethearts, always remember to pamper and love yourself and not expect that from others. Don't feel lonely just because you don't have a best friend or a boyfriend or a husband. Be grateful that you have yourself; be grateful for what you have. Many have lost their own selves because of the atrocities they faced in life. They have lost hope, hope to live. Be grateful that you still have hope...

Hey sweethearts! I n this generation, well it has always been, that we cannot differentiate between friends and foes. A person who is our friend this moment might turn into a foe the next minute and vice-versa. And what do I really want to tell you people? Don't let others get to your head and mess it up! It doesn't matter what others think of you. Always remember that you are beautiful the way you are. We live in a world where people not only judge others, but also judge themselves, in the most critical manner possible, ultimately, feeling sad and depressed. Judging has become something of a habit to most of us. The more we try not to judge people, the more we judge them unconsciously. Body shaming, commenting rudely and so on has become something of a habit nowadays. The only way we can live happily right now is to ignore such people and believe in yourself. You will do a lot more better if you try to find something positive in every little thing you see or do.  I also get af...

Universe is a large space to live in. We are born as tiny beings and we are still tiny, even when we become adults. But, why do we magnify our problems, even though they are tinier than us?  So, hey there! Just smile. And half of your problems will vanish...wooosh!  This is my first blogging experience and I really hope that I make you all feel really good about yourselves, because, at the end of the day, you matter the most. You should realize that you are one of the most beautiful and talented persons. Here, I will not only give tips about how to love yourself but also sometimes, write poems, share something about fitness and everything that matters to you the most. Only because, you should love yourself and feel loved and not have negative thoughts about yourself. Do hit me a mail about your interests you would want me to write about and don't forget to subscribe.  You are beautiful. You are captivating. You are loved. I will also post stories sometimes, just for you t...